if you not know the person, you take their headstone, put on findagrave. I have sent this person several messages and no response there will be action taken against her too. It's totally against what their mission is. send in corrections! How ridiculous! She claims she has THE RIGHT to document what she pleases. Wow! To a point, I don't blame him. For example, I have a cousin whose memorial was posted, no picture of the headstone, no information on all her pass husbands ( she was married 6 times, only one mentioned because it was on her obituary which was posted in an El Paso, Texas newspaper. Unfortunately anonymity is not one of "Find A Grave's" strong points. better not put personal photos online(esp girl naked photos). I feel sorry for you, and I can understand about feeling like you have been exploited.At the same time though if It had not been for find a grave .com. I have been in a cemetery when a church group of about 30 swooped in and started downloading headstones. Method 1 Searching Individual Headstones 1 Visit the cemetery if you know where it is. ti's not "HARD WORK. " The rationale: They do not want a resting place for the dead to be devourered by FindAGrave's cyber knowitall undertakers. You will get no place arguing with FindAGrave's hierarchy or major contributors. As for Obit's find a grave dose say not to add names of living family members but some people still add them. Unless you really know that person, u can directly share or steal. Solution: Make a new account, follow the rules, and be nice. Submit a complaint and get your issue resolved. 3. As a young man he joined. Then rebaptize the dead into the Mormon faith. so please everyone do not turn this beautiful website into a horror story. They are horrible! For immediate removal: Please remove Memorial #[protected]. Voila! They are by states of where the person was buried. Search above to list available cemeteries. Findagrave has mounted information against my permission, and I'm having to retain an attorney because of find-a-grave's unscrupulous behavior. However, I owe much to volunteers on the site who have posted information that I would never have been able to obtain without a major roadtrip with a quick visit to the website. Further harassing a Find A Grave employee on a different website (this one) only proves that there is a serious problem with your unreasonable, childish behavior. unless you really know that person Be mindful of what you say and you must have respect in dealing with this. I have no way to access to my account. Find and visit a loved one's final resting place anywhere, anytime. I'd like to say that this website is in fact, not a blessing. Twice I have submitted a maiden name for a deceased relative and twice been declined - Sad, because I do not want to return to the site now. My computer system is set up to alert me if something downloads without my permission so it was caught almost immediately. We can resolve this issue. They typically do that when a member has a long history of violating their site policies. Historical Society. It is a wonderful thing we all do here, but historians need to not only just walk the grave yards then make a memorial so they can get their numbers up. I did research about Marcel Loubens and emailed findagrave to ask they are ingrates, they dont allow anything negative to be said thats why i want this post to be known publis how they are prot putinist pro stalinist and WHY NEVER EVER TO SUPPORT FINDAGRAVE.COM IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM! are you saying that STEALING PEOPLE HEADSTONE WITHOUT AUTHORIZE IS CALLED PRECIOUS HARD WORK I have had Bios i wrote stolen and posted elsewhere with no mention of me writing those. But the living do have feelings and find grave ghouls violate confidentiality. Since my daughter's crime is unsolved I have reported this to the detectives on the case. For more than 15 years we have helped nearly 50000 customers resolve their issues and will never stop striving to ensure further improvements on our platform for a better communication between companies and customers. I do not care how many countless hours "Find A Grave's cyber ghouls put into it. So any suggestions? The pay version is a one time 30 bucks. FindAGrave is pure grossess. Find A Grave should monitor this kind of behavior, and if those people refuse to follow the rules, then they should be banned. After finding this woman on Facebook, I can confirm Ms. DiMarco wouldn't be allowed into my parents or grandparents homes while they were living, so WHY should she be allowed to manage their memorials ? Solution: move the ad block below the flowers or thin it out so that it's not as intrusive - in fact, that's the solution for ALL of the ads on Find A Grave. It is essentially a long term lease from the cemetery. Legally and geneticly they are not related at all. It is both hurtful and embarrassing to family members. Ancestry provides a myriad of beneficial services; Find A Grave is yet another website providing beneficial information. Please include the cemetery ID number or the URL to the cemetery page on Find a Grave. If you notice a problem with the translation, please send a message to [emailprotected] and include a link to the page and details about the problem. A. Second, for anyone on here who has lost a loved one and finds the work we do (freely without pay and out of the kindness of our hearts most of us anyway) "disgusting, or that it infringes on your privacy, copyright laws and personal property", I am sorry that you feel that way. all the info that told about who he was related to, and the story that was in the newspaper is gone from his web site now . Desired outcome: When posting pictures it is proper to cite the owner of the photograph. These so called "major contributors" also post family photos they have swiped from the net. Or at least you were, as I'm replying to this years after your post. In most cases they don't. Being bitter and calling people names because you are upset is wrong. I cannot get back in F.A.G. The family story and history is greatly important; to me, and to others. answer me one thing. The dead have no right to privacy. My mother-in-law's site is totally inaccurate; says where she's buried. Sure, sure if you're anal enough to enjoy all that cataloging and picture takin, etc then fine, but your getting screwed and smiling about it Might want to learn some self respect. I gladly turn them over to family members who want to put information and pictures. The same thing has happened to me and my suggestion never went through. Have you read Find A Grave's Help section on what to do if your Edit is declined? actually you should not find ladybug person. "Tom" Carpenter, age 84, passed from life to eternal life on Wednesday. Instead, FindAGrave turned the memorial over to one of their major contributors, a Megan Heyl on the grounds she was the expert concerning my family. I don't know who she is. It was not put here for it to be a tug of war or a battleground everyone must follow the rules and regulations Over 226 million memorials created by the community since 1995. If findagrave will call me back, i'll let them know the name of the stalker who is a contributor on findagrave. I am sure you can find another forum for that discussion. #HYPOCRITES, Desired outcome: What is your experience with Find A Grave? The mechanics do not work like you were brainwashed to believe. All that info is gone now! Please, get your morals together, get in touch with reality, and then get back to me and clear up what you have stated. family or friends can call findagrave to delete unallowed photographs on their family/friend's tombstones. Being a republican or democrat should have nothing to do with findagrave and southern history of our confederate veterans memorials. the email is from his daughter (she claim it's his daughter) but sounds like it's pretending his daughter. So much unneccesary stress its to the point I consider suicide. State, Local, and Tribal Governments Find contact information for state, local, and tribal governments. When I checked, I fond that somebody already did and the info is all wrong as well. I haven't had any problems with anyone or them, so don't have a clue what is going on. because if her friends/her classmates/classmates parents. It is in fact not precious hard work, it is simply walking around and taking pictures of graves. I only post a headstone photo that I personally have taken and sometimes link a person to a spouse. Like Fish1452, I only manage a very few memorials and I have been a member of [censored] for over 20 years. The point hasn't anything to do with the validity of Find A Grave, but rather do you want you family added to their lists and plastered all over the net. or "PRECIOUS HARD WORK" So I'm VERY CURIOUS. Find A Grave reviews & complaints 68 complaints 2 resolved 66 unresolved File a complaint Table of contents Claim listing Follow Share Complaints Contacts FAQ Find A Grave reviews 68 F FuryH of Indianapolis, GB Feb 13, 2023 7:51 am EST Verified customer Memorials and photo Ghouls View social follower numbers, contact emails, reviews and podcasts like Grave Matters. Not just steal. Begin your search by either entering the cemetery name and location (by city, county, state, or country), or you can browse cemeteries by location. In other words, if the contact person is "not accepting messages, " and they do this intentionally, you won't be able to reach them, to request management control. She was an infant and her headstone on find a grave is a way of keeping her memory alive with some Can I charge money as a Photo Volunteer? Many memorials are created with information about survivors. Most people defending this site use finding a passed family member from hundreds of years ago as an excuse, and I understand that, however I do not understand that they take pictures of children only recently passed. Interesting. Historic Oakland Cemetery Because you are not their ONLY relative and others requested or may want to see it. Desired outcome: I noticed that this "TeeJLee" person likes to read reviews from complaintsboard, take out a small piece of the review he doesn't agree with or can easily rebute against, and reply to the reviewer's complaint with full-out nonsense and insult. THAT's THE REAL DISHONOR. A system error has occurred. Share your photos and videos with others to prove the truth of your words. The bottom-lineNot every family wants to be part of "Find A Grave's internet kingdom." TeeJLee, What process? Unless you really know that person, u can directly share or steal. Spare me. I didnt even get an email from Find A Grave to warn me. When I add names, etc. So I am very sorry for your loss, as I still have pot gotten over mine, fortunately for me, I now have a nine year old granddaughter from my son. Memorials of: Robert Paul Carmichael #[protected] and Jessie Jacobs Carmichael #[protected], You get no place trying to get find a grave ghouls to transfer memorials back to the family even though it is protocal to do so. It was not put here for it to be a tug of war or a battleground everyone must follow the rules and regulations and not step on anyone's feet. And yes, they are a husband-wife . posts. Contact Your Local BBB Your local Better Business Bureau can assist you with finding businesses and. Like FB you control what's on the page. Review the Help section for answers to the most common questions. Contact Us - Find A Grave Contact Us We'd love to hear from you. For consumers, it can happen through online feedback forms or customer service countersbut consumer complaints are a separate matter. Everyone feels differently about this though. Good luck ! How do messages work? "Find A Grave" thrives on harvesting cemetery data with no regard to family wishes. . Running Deer takes his memorial [protected] down. A trojan virus downloaded onto my computer when I was on Find A Grave and clicked on a family name within a memorial. I've done a small number of photo requests from the site at a local cemetery. This person has harassed me even on created memorials I worked hard on. I also discussed talking to attorney to see if I could get some type of restraining order to prohibit my grave site from appearing on ###. I feel this infringes on my privacy, copyright laws and personal property of mine being placed on the internet for advertising purposes. If you are not satisfied with the response, you may contact the customer support team. just disappeared ? So contact ancestry.Com about this. especially towards Chinese superstitious people. The dead could care less what u do. Find a grave.com photographed my 6 year old daughter's headstone and put it online. My heart goes out to you. You don't not belong on complaintsboard. Please try again later. IS THIS THE "FAMILY VALUES" ANCESTRY GIVES SUCH GREAT LIP SERVICE TO ? Some of us are private people and just want to be left alone. When you're visiting a cemetery, the app lets you upload inscription data and photos of graves you visit, and fulfill others' requests for pictures of their ancestors' gravesites. As a result, misspelled names, incorrect dates of birth and dates of death, unrelated family members and the list goes on, are written in these memorials. Reported Problem: Not accurate - Their data conflicts with my data. Plan to go early in the day, in case it takes you a while to find the exact location. If you complain to FindAGrave's hierarchy you are either suspended or blocked from the site. I had my fathers memorial, my grandfathers, my grandmother, my great grand parents stolen from my control by someone who isn't related. Unlike Western thought Mormons do not believe in a trinity and some deny Christ as the son of God. I check notifications daily so that any family with closer ties may contact me and have their memorial transferred to them (especially since that is supposed to be how it works). cemeteries found within kilometers of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list. When burial details are unknown, Ancestry has a "global" index for this. We are all individuals of different expectations of this site. Find a Grave - Millions of Cemetery Records World's largest gravesite collection. see that photo on findagrave site. That is true, however I have requested several times even sent the find a grave and as you said they dont care. So Ancestry is breaking Find a Grave's guidelines. Only family can create memorials under 90 days and Id suggest a year. if you harass the creatoer or the grave page owner, they will report you harass them and they will ban your profile in findagrave. If you are hoping to find the grave of a specific relative, then you will need to have some vital record information: Full name (first, middle, last) Date of birth Date of death Location of death You can find full names and birthdates on family bibles or baptismal and census records. Sad life when people have nothing better to do with their time. Find A Grave - Has no check against rampant fraud. If u persist you are banned for harassing the top contributor who now manages the Memorial "you" created. I am absolutely revolted! Resend Activation Email. Create a findagrave.com account and then click "suggest edits" and then there will be an option to request management of the memorial. Even when you use facebook other person photo, u must also ask owner permission. FindAGrave Administrators- Caleb, Mikenna, and Amber. I was born in 1978 but sorry for your daughter. ----- I can't tell you how many old cemeteries I've documented that were in such total disrepair and vandalism that you couldn't read the stones even after you put them back together. Also F.A.G says they award points, so beef with them. When I started genealogy research 2 years ago I was grateful to find information on loved ones. Many f## people are very unfriednly, when ladybug reported you, findagrave banned you so you can NOT see anything. - had parents of someone posted in the wrong cemetery, so I photocopied the page from the cemetery book & posted it on the pages for her parents to show correct place of burial, Ladybug threw a fit, reported me & I got the boot; Ladybug was rude as heck to me in several emails, but I guess that doesnt matter. Its stated mission is "to help people from all over the world work together to find, record and present final disposition information as a virtual cemetery experience." IF IT BOTHERS YOU, GO FIND THE BURIAL YOURSELF IF YOU THINK IT"S EASY. Find a Grave - Online Search. Desired outcome: We'd love to hear from you. especially if the girl is even NOT DEAD YET. You must include a valid cemetery ID or URL. When I got to my ggg grandmother, I went to connect her memorial to one of her daughter's memorials which just so happened to be managed by a person named "Scout" who LITERALLY is managing over 200,000 Ancestry company - "Findagrave" is effectively holding my grandparents memorials hostage. Have you tried contacting him on the memorial's Edit page? I got threatened with police action because the evil administrators refused to give my account back after it was removed. My estranged sister became Manager on my fathers site and added a nickname to his name on the site. No materials from this website may be copied, reproduced, republished, uploaded, posted, transmitted, or distributed in any way. Many people enjoy walking through cemeteries and taking pictures. ComplaintsBoard.com is a leading complaint resolution website on the Internet. Please reset your password. To find cemetery records for New York in the FamilySearch Catalog follow these steps: Go to the FamilySearch Catalog Enter: New York in the Place box Click on: Search Click on: Cemeteries To search for cemeteries at the county level follow directions below Go to the FamilySearch Catalog Enter: New York in the Place box Click on: Search Quickly search more than 180 million graves in half a million cemeteries around the world. @, no one has to ask permission to photograph a headstone. if you think dead has no privacy, WRONG. listed divorce dates, ex spouses names and material of a more private nature our family did not want to share with the world. Many contain personal info that many families wish 2 keep private. Find a Grave used a photo of me for someone else. Maybe a mom from my father who died 1974. Do you want your child forgotten? from 5 Stanford Green, Walkinstown, Dublin you have no right to privacy. It's not on the tombstone and it was a nickname given to him by coworker where he worked for 4 years from [protected]. Brought in dead to The Meath Hospital, Heytesbury Street, Dublin, having had a Coronary Occlusion & Paroxysmal Tachycardia, certified Please wait a few minutes and try again. They will take a really long time to reply to you, but when they finally reply to your email, they will threaten to ignore you unless you tell them your relationship to that memorial (From my own experience), so make sure to state your relationship. Account question or Support Request Update to memorial Update cemetery Question for the cemetery Website Feedback Find a Grave 1300 West Traverse Parkway Lehi, UT 84043 It is very obvious that he is upset with Find-A-Grave. All this and more with just a few taps. Thanks for your help! When I confronted this whale of a whale to relinquished ownership and return the memorial back to me I was banned. My response is that there are too many members on Find A Grave who do NOT follow the rules. This is the result of 698 total reviews. My thoughts were not on the heartless soul collectors of Find A Grave when I heard the news. They are getting fresh air and exercise. What they do believe in concerning an after life is an eternal plain that is tended by a mother and father God. Grave Matters Chuck and Kristy Robinett. 1. This is not even "precious hard work" when you steal the headstone photo and put on your own findagrave.com No, that's not what it means. Sometimes if you ask nicely, someone will comply with your wishes. Not even the ones I paid to sponsor! They just would not listen. He hated the nickname and when my father and mother divorced in 1969; he moved back to his home town in NC and was never even called anything been a member since 2016 and i dont log in often, and i just discovered that someone made a memorial for my great grandfather john flint #[protected]. Translation on Find a Grave is an ongoing project. Most of us do it to honor your family member and to ensure in 100 years, their descents have a way to feel more connected.